Let's face it - becoming a mom takes over your life. All of a sudden your entire existence become all about another person - and while it is perhaps THE greatest feeling of all - so many of us often lose ourselves in the process of transition from parentless to parent.
I can personally say this because it happened to me. It still happens to me if I'm not careful. After my daughter was born in 2015, I went through a time where I completely lost myself and who I was. I barely had time to think, let alone read in peace, be with friends or do any of my hobbies that make me feel like "me". I was there for my daughter, my family and my work...but I wasn't truly there in the moment. I was just doing, not living. I would get up, get myself and my daughter ready, go to work, come home, dinner, bath, bedtime routine...then go to bed, get up the next day and do it all over again. I knew what I was doing was important, and I love my Mom title and will always be there for my family, but I realized I needed a little "Me" time to recharge and connect with who I am as an individual too. These are ways I have found that allow me to reconnect with my identity beyond just being a mom - I hope you find them useful for you too!






